Aw man, your girlfriend and dad sound awesome! It’s not a problem, have a great night :)

I hope your friends come back, but y’know I also hope you start rebuilding your life without them in the meantime. You deserve to move on not for their sake, but for yours and your peace.

I totally understand missing them.

;)

Well even if you can’t move, I hope you realize that you don’t have to prove anything to them because they don’t matter anymore in your life. Don’t let them live rent free in your head and yes I know that’s a lot easier said than done lol

You’re alright, just let me be my grumpy womanly self at rude men and I’ll let you shitpost or whatever wherever you want as long as it’s not in the womensstuff community, deal?

I’m really glad you’re still here. Yeah that really sucks and no one deserves to go through that. It’s not a suffering competition, no one wins for additional suffering and I truly view that for everyone. Even the guys I might hold in some contempt lol

Not that you want any advice from a 40 year old queer mom, but have you looked into moving to a different city? Sometimes a fresh start is worth it. You’re worth it.

I promise you I don’t accuse people of rape and would never. I really was going to leave the convo there, but saw your edit and do want to reassure you.

That’s fucked up and I’m sorry you went through that.

Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

Gotta get quality time in where we can, right? Haha that sounds lovely honestly :)

As are you.

I’m not your ex-girlfriend.

Oh I’m not allowed to act however I want but you are?

Why is that?

Not everyone who would find the group a good fit advertises their gender.

Maybe an offshoot private community from the main would be a good idea though.

Y’know to be fair I read through my comments here to see where I insulted you.

I didn’t find any insults.

Even strangers on an anonymous forum have immediately demonized me over this.

How interesting.

And I replied to you because I knew you would immediately start throwing insults at me, proving my point

You accused me of hating all men and thought I was going to continue to be sweet to you?

Don’t dish out what you can’t take yourself.

You want to hate me.

Again, take a look at my post history. I’m quite positive to everyone except men who think they can punch down on women with no one saying anything.

I’ll fucking say something. I’m not dodging that and I’m not shying away from it. But I don’t initiate it.

I’m chill, I’m just replying to you lol

You can’t answer some questions in return? What does this interaction do for you?

What do you get out of this? Does it make you hard to needle at women? Does it get your rocks off to pick at outspoken women?

Again, my post history would dispel this image who have built of me in your head if you ever bother to take a look. It feels better to hate me though, doesn’t it?

No, I hate sexist men who can’t respect a women’s only community.

I hate men who rape.

I hate men who insist on their viewpoint being the only correct one and waiving away women’s perspectives and views.

That’s very different from hating all men.

Yeah, which insults do I throw out most? I don’t name call hardly ever unless it’s to point out misogyny and even then it’s to call them a misogynist. I’m serious, feel free to go through my post history. You won’t find what you’re looking for there.

I’m self aware enough to know that I am rude to men who do not respect women. I don’t deny that.

I’ve seen a lot of comments that rub me the wrong way as well.

I miss the entwives subreddit :(