I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

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    12 hours ago

    Yeah you love spewing insults lol

    I’m also self aware enough to know i can be a shithead and i’m not out here whining and pretending i’m not part of the problem either

    Your name is recognizable and i have seen countless comments from you that rub me the wrong way

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      10 hours ago

      If you know you’re part of the problem, why not… stop? You don’t have to be a shithead. It’s actually really easy to treat people with respect.

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        10 hours ago

        Because I don’t agree with the OP that it’s an issue. I think that on anon boards you can act however you want. There are better places if you are this sensitive.

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          You can act however you want, but if you act like a shithead all the time you’re probably gonna get a lot of shit back. That’s fine if that’s what you want, but in that case you gotta have a thick enough skin for it.

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            10 hours ago

            You can. I would have blocked you if I wasn’t ok with it.

            I’m merely pointing out that you have no room to complain about hostility here. Youre a hypocrite

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                10 hours ago

                No I’m pretty sure our first date would last max 30 seconds lol

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                  10 hours ago

                  Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

                  I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

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                    9 hours ago

                    Do you think it would last longer? I am making a joke about how wildly incompatible we are

                    Chill

                    You will have to elaborate because im a dumb man who doesn’t understand what you mean with the ex gf comment. You’re annoying but there is no way you as as evil as my ex lmao

                    Unless you accuse random people of rape. Please don’t do this

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      Yeah, which insults do I throw out most? I don’t name call hardly ever unless it’s to point out misogyny and even then it’s to call them a misogynist. I’m serious, feel free to go through my post history. You won’t find what you’re looking for there.

      I’m self aware enough to know that I am rude to men who do not respect women. I don’t deny that.

      I’ve seen a lot of comments that rub me the wrong way as well.

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          No, I hate sexist men who can’t respect a women’s only community.

          I hate men who rape.

          I hate men who insist on their viewpoint being the only correct one and waiving away women’s perspectives and views.

          That’s very different from hating all men.

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              11 hours ago

              What do you get out of this? Does it make you hard to needle at women? Does it get your rocks off to pick at outspoken women?

              Again, my post history would dispel this image who have built of me in your head if you ever bother to take a look. It feels better to hate me though, doesn’t it?

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                11 hours ago

                Reread the OP and tell me you are not behaving this exact way right now. You are completely insufferable. Chill out. Lol

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                  11 hours ago

                  I’m chill, I’m just replying to you lol

                  You can’t answer some questions in return? What does this interaction do for you?

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                    11 hours ago

                    I call out hypocrites when I see them and you are one of the prominent negative nancies of lemmy, when i saw your comment here i just laughed because you are one of the accounts OP is calling out

                    And I replied to you because I knew you would immediately start throwing insults at me, proving my point