I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

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    If you know you’re part of the problem, why not… stop? You don’t have to be a shithead. It’s actually really easy to treat people with respect.

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      Because I don’t agree with the OP that it’s an issue. I think that on anon boards you can act however you want. There are better places if you are this sensitive.

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        You can act however you want, but if you act like a shithead all the time you’re probably gonna get a lot of shit back. That’s fine if that’s what you want, but in that case you gotta have a thick enough skin for it.

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          You can. I would have blocked you if I wasn’t ok with it.

          I’m merely pointing out that you have no room to complain about hostility here. Youre a hypocrite

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              No I’m pretty sure our first date would last max 30 seconds lol

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                Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

                I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

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                  Do you think it would last longer? I am making a joke about how wildly incompatible we are

                  Chill

                  You will have to elaborate because im a dumb man who doesn’t understand what you mean with the ex gf comment. You’re annoying but there is no way you as as evil as my ex lmao

                  Unless you accuse random people of rape. Please don’t do this

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                    I promise you I don’t accuse people of rape and would never. I really was going to leave the convo there, but saw your edit and do want to reassure you.

                    That’s fucked up and I’m sorry you went through that.