I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

  • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
    11·
    17 hours ago

    Because I don’t agree with the OP that it’s an issue. I think that on anon boards you can act however you want. There are better places if you are this sensitive.

    • toomanypancakes@crazypeople.onlineEnglish
      2·
      17 hours ago

      You can act however you want, but if you act like a shithead all the time you’re probably gonna get a lot of shit back. That’s fine if that’s what you want, but in that case you gotta have a thick enough skin for it.

      • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
        21·
        17 hours ago

        You can. I would have blocked you if I wasn’t ok with it.

        I’m merely pointing out that you have no room to complain about hostility here. Youre a hypocrite

          • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
            11·
            16 hours ago

            No I’m pretty sure our first date would last max 30 seconds lol

            • velma@sh.itjust.works
              12·
              16 hours ago

              Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

              I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

              • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
                1·
                16 hours ago

                Do you think it would last longer? I am making a joke about how wildly incompatible we are

                Chill

                You will have to elaborate because im a dumb man who doesn’t understand what you mean with the ex gf comment. You’re annoying but there is no way you as as evil as my ex lmao

                Unless you accuse random people of rape. Please don’t do this

                • velma@sh.itjust.works
                  21·
                  16 hours ago

                  I promise you I don’t accuse people of rape and would never. I really was going to leave the convo there, but saw your edit and do want to reassure you.

                  That’s fucked up and I’m sorry you went through that.

                  • rabber@lemmy.caEnglish
                    2·
                    16 hours ago

                    I think you read my thread about losing all my friends. Yeah i was falsely accused of rape and almost lost everything. Time has passed and I am still wished dead by many. I haven’t found any way to defend myself or redeem myself. Nobody will ever believe me. Thanks for your words. Shit sucks.

                    I agree with your view on women being oppressed, but holy hell, being the man in this particular situation is plain unfair. It’s a miracle I didn’t kill myself

                    To be clear I didn’t “go through it” - this is going to follow me for the rest of my entire life I think.

                    And I know for a fact you aren’t this evil because a narcissist would never carry themselves the way you do. They pretend they are harmless until behind closed doors.