• village604@adultswim.fan
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    19 days ago

    Yeah, it’s definitely not a bad thing to focus on raising women to the same level in society as men.

    The problem is, like with any group, the radicals who use the movement to spread hate and tarnish the reputation of everyone involved. Religion has the same issue.

    In this case, it’s the ones who think equality means swapping positions of power so men are the ones who are oppressed. They give the whole movement a bad name and lead to associations like this.

    Honestly, the well might be so poisoned at this point that rebranding with an umbrella term might not be a terrible choice, although it’s terrible that it’s not a terrible choice. It shouldn’t be this way, but humans suck.

    • potoooooooo ✅️@lemmy.world
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      19 days ago

      Who are you referencing when you reference, “the ones who think equality means swapping positions of power so men are the ones who are oppressed?” I’m curious to see what an example or two of that would look like.

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        18 days ago

        I’ve have an example of this that happen recently. It was on a post about Spain (iirc, might have been Italy) making killing women because of their gender a hate crime.

        People were arguing that men should receive harsher punishments for killing women because of their gender than women killing men because of their gender.

        Which isn’t equality since criminal prosecution should be on a case by case basis. It should be a hate crime to kill anyone because of the way they were born. The fact that women are more often victims just means that more men will be prosecuted than women, but the sentences should be the same.

        There’s also the crazies who think that any time a woman has sex with a man, the woman is being raped.

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        19 days ago

        What they refer to is for example women using accusations of inappropriate behavior to ruin reputations and promotion chances of men to get ahead.

        One that also pops up is how divorce is used as a way to strip mine the wealth of men because “the system” will advantage women always.

        That’s some talking points you usually see.

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      18 days ago

      Yeah, it’s definitely not a bad thing to focus on raising women to the same level in society as men.

      The problem is, Strawman Strawman Strawman

      In this case, Strawman Strawman

    • Deceptichum@quokk.auOP
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      19 days ago

      Such people represent such a minority of a minority that their opinion is entirely irrelevant.

      As long as men continue to have a kneejerk reaction to the word feminism, I think it holds educational value in agitation.

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        18 days ago

        Their opinion isn’t irrelevant, though, as shown by the comic. It only takes a vocal minority to taint the public image.

        It only took 19 Muslims to make people associate them with terrorists.

    • ceoofanarchism@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      19 days ago

      Where are these hoards of feminists committing “reverse sexism” and oppressing men other than a random tumblr or twitter comment? Where is there institutional power and how are men structurally oppressed in a way not obviously connected to the patriarchy?

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        18 days ago

        I never said hoards. All it takes is a vocal minority.

        It didn’t take hoards of Muslims to make people associate them with terrorists.