• glorkon@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    First girl looks like an obedient, probably rather boring person. Second girl looks like she’s self-confident, likes to party and have fun, is open-minded and great fun to be with.

    Looks can be deceiving, but I would be drawn to the tattooed girl if looks were my only criteria to go by.

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      4 days ago

      That’s a whole lot of assumptions to make based on a couple of still images with no context, I think. “Obedient” about the first image especially weirded me out, I have to say.

      likes to party and have fun

      I always laugh at ‘likes to have fun’. It’s a completely meaningless phrase, since “fun” is subjectively defined. Boils down to “likes to do stuff they like”.

      self-confident

      But aren’t a large number of tattoos/piercings more correlated with low self-esteem?

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        3 days ago

        Of course it’s all assumptions, as I explicitly wrote “if looks were my only criteria to go by.”

        Read first, then comment.

        But aren’t a large number of tattoos/piercings more correlated with low self-esteem?

        You criticize me for making assumptions, then you come up with an even bigger one…