I mean I will definitely ask that because in BDSM you want to know a lot about your partner, especially medical records and problems. Even the biological sex and if they are or have taken hrt is very important because it changes muscle strength and “placement” which in turn changes how you can safely spank someone. Discovery in bdsm involves spreadsheets for me. When someone is against that I will not play with them.
then just ask that?
or if u wanna know their genitals, ask that
someones agab does not tell u how much lube u need
altho if you try asking about their agab u might find out that u won’t need any lube cause they won’t wanna have sex with u
I mean I will definitely ask that because in BDSM you want to know a lot about your partner, especially medical records and problems. Even the biological sex and if they are or have taken hrt is very important because it changes muscle strength and “placement” which in turn changes how you can safely spank someone. Discovery in bdsm involves spreadsheets for me. When someone is against that I will not play with them.