No need to nitpick. We are two humans communicating so obviously this is a social activity. A community theater is social media by the loosest definition, but the term “social media” now commonly means the big centralized commercial product platforms of Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.

There are worlds of difference between the manipulative ads and algorithms of social media and the activity feeds on Lemmy. It’s the difference between a shopping mall and a community yard sale.

Right on! We won the game. 🍻

Then I’m the third half and I have a friend that makes the 4th half. I feel like okcupid’s early days was peak dating tech before the enshittification set in.