Betwixed and between

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Cake day: March 14th, 2023

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  • while there might be some crazy people like that man of them have different options to the status quo and provide me with food for further thought. That doesn’t mean I agree with everything there, but that thay the same with any instance.

    i find how we are in this world isn’t because of the likes of the opinions on .ml bit the apathy and opinions of the average voter and citizen, so normal (as in under the bell curve) is the new crazy.

    an example

    Susan Sontag was asked what she had learned from the Holocaust, and she said that 10% of any population is cruel, no matter what, and that 10% is merciful, no matter what, and that the remaining 80% could be moved in either direction.” — Kurt Vonnegut

    this is the US now for example…

    i wanted an instance that wasn’t defederated from them.

























  • i think theres a variety of reasons, theyve had a bad day, they’re assholes, etc

    however I’ve also made what I consider innocuous comment’s on something or replied with an answer to their questions and they’ve been offended

    I’ve also had people come into communities and be offmded as fuck. An example of the latter might be /c/fuckcars and people get offended when their very ordinary eery day activity is seen as obnoxious and they take umbrage at that and might get called out for it.

    i also have to acknowledge I sit way outside the bell curve eg I dislike people owning pet cats or dogs, i have to try very hard to not make that obvious or people get super offended…Similarly as an aethiest. My point ? my very act of me having my opinion is super offensive to some people, so then I’m the asshole if that is you.

    Somtimes people are assholes, somtimes it’s way more nuanced, sometimes people shoukd be called out on their bullshit (tolerance of intolerace)