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  • True, we all also interacted in the real world for years before the internet.

    So the Internet is also non-essential!

    But, it makes it convenient. Discord is also super convenient.

    It’s not like we didn’t see the writing on the wall 10 years ago, but all of us accepted convenience over everything else. Now we are reaping the “benefits”.

    For me I have a private self hosted wiki that I use to document everything from gaming to my servers to just general life stuff. I’d love to start up a forum for gaming/tech, but I don’t have the resources nor funding to do that, plus there’s a decent amount of others already out there…


  • Sucks that there isn’t a one-size-fits-all alternative, yet.

    Stoat doesn’t have enough features.

    Matrix is confusing for the masses, plus there is so much conflicting information online of what home server do you join? You shouldn’t join matrix.org’s because of admin abuse? Element clients on mobile are meh.

    TeamSpeak is a voice first platform.

    For my situation it looks like I should move my wife and I to Signal and then my friend group to Stoat, but the recent server issues(prob due to influx of new users) has caused a bit of my friends to have a sour taste out of the gate…

    Nothing is ready to replace Discord IMO. And that sucks. We need dedicated forums again, more wiki servers, and better chat applications.


  • Either parent your kid, or don’t, but it is not my job to make sure your kid is coddled on the internet.

    As a recently new parent myself, your post is great. And as a IT nerd, your post is also infuriating.

    It is so beyond easy nowadays to monitor and restrict your child’s access to online content. Seeing the post you’re replying to just reminds me of everyone I’ve ever talked to that had X issue and their only response is “throw hands up in the air after trying nothing”.

    My kids are still too young to be reasoned with, but my wife and I agreed that:

    • No dedicated personal phone until middle school, and it ain’t gonna be some top of the line iphone
    • No “tablet kid” bullshit
    • No unfettered YouTube access

    So far our oldest loves finding our phones and can open the camera app from the lockscreen and she runs around taking photos. So we’ve been letting that slide…but we don’t unlock the phone, so it’s a compromise we’ve made as she LOVES taking photos and seeing photos, which I want to encourage. As for content watching we have a TV with Plex and if there’s something we approve of on YouTube and we want our kids to watch it(Ms. Rachel), then I download the YouTube video and put it on my Plex server. No ads, no algorithm auto played videos, just pure approved content. And we have classic cartoons(Rolie Polie Olie) and disney/pixar/ghibli movies, etc.

    Of course if your kid is at school with no phone but its recess and their friend has a phone with zero limits…yeah I can’t control that. But I can at least parent my kid to know that I don’t like that and I don’t want them to participate it.

    Also when they’re a bit older(5 or 6 years old) I plan on teaching them internet safety. Don’t post PII, don’t visit certain websites, always use an adblocker/ublock, only talk to people online that you know in real life, etc. I do plan on playing video games with them(if they have an interest) and I know that will eventually lead to online lobbies, but I am hoping to teach them in private Minecraft servers certain etiquette first and go from there.

    I’m both excited and terrified, but this is my job as a parent!



  • Why wouldn’t someone save in the US?

    The country is burning down? Sure. We don’t know what things will look like in a year? Me neither!

    But I’d rather save and invest because in 40 years things may or may not have turned out fine. And I’d have a couple million and you will have zero because “why would you save!?!?” mentality.

    If you get started early enough, you don’t even have to save a lot over time or even month to month. But if you wait until the last second(40s, 50s?) you’ll need to be dumping thousands per month just to catch up.

    This is a math problem, not an emotional one.


  • So use a VPN, buy a 3d printer in another state, send it to a mail forwarding service?

    Or buy a printer and install different firmware on it?

    And maybe my understand of 3d printers is wrong, but a 3d printer itself doesn’t know what it is printing, it only gets the gcode from the slicer. So if the slicer is what is being modified, then use an open slicer like OrcaSlicer?

    So a nothing burger of massive proportion this looks like. Which will soon spread to California. Great…











  • Same, my wife quickly figured out that my Old Spice lasted longer than anything she’s ever bought before.

    She’d have to apply her old deodorant 2-3 times throughout the day(working an office job). But the old spice? Once in the morning and she didn’t have to worry about it again unless she worked out after work.

    Now her sister and her mom use old spice for the same reasons.


  • Going back through my github issues/comments, it was around May 2024 with the v1.105.0 release was my last attempt.

    I’m happy to hear it is stable now, I’ll probably give it a shot again here soon. Again, I loved the app and I was hosting it for friends/family to share photos of my kids, so it helped immensely with everyone collaborating with uploads(though mobile uploads for individual photos wasn’t available at that time, had to direct people to use the website…).

    To be fair I don’t think I used the docker installation back then, so I’ll probably make a stack for it this time around.