We’ve been calling it the unguided missile effect. You shoot someone in a car that isn’t in park and you’ve released a big chunk of metal at yourself and anyone nearby.

I said no contact, dammit!

A lot of people have a terrible relationship with at least one person. An ex, a parent, a grandparent, an old friend who stole all your alcohol and refused to give it back or pay for it even though he knew you needed it for a get together you were having so you had to go buy all new alcohol on short notice which means you had to leave your brisket smoking unattended so you could drive to the next county and ended up with a brisket that was overdone, whatever. I don’t think it’s “wife bad” so much as it is “everyone knows a shitbag”.