You know, shit on the toilet seat, piss on the floor…why do they do it?
And not to be rude but I’m not looking for everyone’s speculations as to why. I’m curious if there’s anyone with firm knowledge about their motivations, either because they know someone who does it or because they do it themselves.
Where I’m from it’s because their mother handles all that, and they leave messes because no one told them to clean it themselves because it’s women’s work.
MOOOOM! BAAATHROOOM!
Precisely. I watched an 8 year old walk out of a bathroom and demand their ass be wiped for them. I’ve also seen husbands angrily walk up to their wives and say the kid/pet puked/pissed/pooped on the floor without ever considering cleaning it themselves.
When i still lived with my ex, whoever saw the cat puke first simply cleaned it up. I can’t even get into the mind of men who think cleaning is below them.
If our animals had an accident inside, and my wife is home, she takes care of it simply because I’ll throw up myself.
However, if she’s not here, I’ll handle it (and mine lol) myself.
I vacuum, clean the windows, floors and shower. She dusts and takes care of the toilets. We share tasks in this house!
Good for you :-) Although i read that couples feel more equal and are less stressed if who does what type of work isn’t fixed, and you switch it up once in a while, so that noone can feel like they are being exploited.