LadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 months agoWhat would you add?piefed.cdn.blahaj.zoneimagemessage-square5linkfedilinkarrow-up12arrow-down10
arrow-up12arrow-down1imageWhat would you add?piefed.cdn.blahaj.zoneLadyButterfly she/her@piefed.blahaj.zone to Mental Health@lemmy.worldEnglish · 3 months agomessage-square5linkfedilink
minus-squarerhymeswithduck@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·3 months ago“other people’s feelings are not my responsibility” can be used to justify treating others badly. As in, I get to say whatever I want, and if you don’t like what I say about you, that’s entirely your problem.
minus-squareessell@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 months agoThat kinda muddles up feelings, behaviours and reactions into a mix there… I am responsible for my actions since I control them. I am responsible for my intentions because I choose them. I am not responsible for other People’s feelings or reactions because I can not control them. If something I’m responsible for causes harm then I choose to make amends.
“other people’s feelings are not my responsibility” can be used to justify treating others badly. As in, I get to say whatever I want, and if you don’t like what I say about you, that’s entirely your problem.
That kinda muddles up feelings, behaviours and reactions into a mix there…
I am responsible for my actions since I control them.
I am responsible for my intentions because I choose them.
I am not responsible for other People’s feelings or reactions because I can not control them.
If something I’m responsible for causes harm then I choose to make amends.