Last night I had a hookup for the first time. I told the guy I wanted him to use a condom, which offended him because he was like, “Why do I need to use one if you already have an IUD? Do you think I’m some STD-ridden guy?” I told him I just don’t know him that well. Either way it was fine in the end, he put it on and it was a fine night. Now I’m thinking, was I being a pushover?
If a guy makes a fuss over putting on a condom at all, then I’d consider him as out for future dates.
No contraceptive option is 100% and being concerned about STIs with hook ups is a VERY valid reason. He may have something and not exhibiting signs yet to be recognized.